Etiquette

Hygiene

Please arrive freshly showered or be prepared to shower when you arrive, with special attention paid to places the sun don't shine. I love the smell of essential oils and fancy soaps, but in general please go easy on the cologne or perfume. I will do the same! I tend to wear scents such as citrus, rose, and musky herbals. If you have an allergy please speak up.

At your request I am happy to arrive to our meeting unshowered with my natural body odors intact from a day out in the world. II generally do not shave and do not expect you to, but please kindly make sure your facial hair stubble won't rub my skin off like sandpaper!

The Balance

Please only transfer the required deposit amount for deposits, Additional amounts transferred will be considered a tip.

The rest of your balance is to be paid in cash at the time of our meeting. You are welcome to use a book, envelope, card, or folded paper. Please leave it in plain sight upon entering- Table, counter, nightstand, gift bag, or inside my new car. Just kidding! Unless....

Gifts and tips

.....are not expected but are appreciated. Generous individuals are reciprocated with my energetic generosity. Some of my most favorite things have been sponsored by highly caring, thoughtful, and appreciative admirers-- thank you so much. Here are some ideas and hints about what I like...

FAQ

Deposits, Cancellations, Rescheduling

No Deposit for walk-In lingerie shop hours.

$50 flat deposit for all PDX appointments
The deposit $50 covers my incall rental fee - Therefore, if you cancel or need to reschedule, I may not be able to a accommodate this request. In cases of extenuating circumstances for known and loyal guests, I may be amenable to exceptions. Please schedule mindfully.

Local appointments only:
You may reschedule our meeting up to 2 hours before our date with original deposit for a time within 5 days of original appointment. Less than 2 hours notice forefits your deposit. To book again, new deposit is required. This is a very generous cancellation policy, so please be kind and plan accordingly.

Outside PDX:
Dates require a 20% deposit to be paid at time of booking to secure your appointment. There are no exceptions.
CashApp is highly preferred. Gift cards may be sent in extenuating circumstances (please inquire before purchasing).​ Please only transfer the required deposit amount. Additional amounts transferred will be considered a tip. The rest of your balance is to be paid in cash at the time of our meeting.

All deposits are nonrefundable.
All gift cards are nonrefundable.

If in the rare circumstance that I have to change our plans, I will first contact you about a possible reschedule. If we are not able to find a new time to meet, I will refund your deposit within 48 hours.

Screening

For TNA members, I require a minimum of 3 reputable vouches to meet you OR just go through my regular booking process.
OR you are welcome to come during my regularly scheduled hours in SE PDX at my lingerie shop job, we just remodeled and it is very nice, cozy, discreet, and clean!

For private scheduled meetings, the best way to complete screening is via the thoughtfully-crafted booking form on this website. It is 2-factor protected and encrypted. It is fastest instead of 100 back and forth emails. I appreciate it a lot!

Our time on earth is precious, why waste it trying to convince me that you're too important or special or private to provide me your personal information? I truly do not want to meet you if that is the case. Most people don’t want their jobs to know they’re doing "extra" activities. There’s nothing special about that.
I never kiss and tell!

Do you offer [specific service inquiry]?

There is a lot of information on this website. If you're not finding what you need, you're welcome to book a phone consultation to see if I am the right companion for you. This is not a fantasy phone call. Consultations are up to 20 minutes and cost $40, paid via Amazon gift card or Cashapp. Request a phone session

Do you have a list of toys and implements I can browse?

In short, no. My collection of toys and implements is of the classic and basic nature. I generally have a selection of dildos, plugs, paddles, clamps, rope, palette wrap, clamps, gags, and some sensory toys.
You are welcome to bring your own toys for me to use on you but I appreciate a heads up! I am generally open to trying new tools, but if there is something particularly niche that you're interested in exploring with me, please reach out for a paid phone consultation to see if I am the right provider for you.
Sponsoring a toy to add to my collection is a great way for me to remember our good times together (and think of you every time I use it..)

For a more immersive experience with oodles of naughty furniture, I am able to host our meeting at a fully-equipped local dungeon in SE Portland, OR.

I want to take you to dinner, can we do that?

Yes, and you have the option to luxuriate with me afterward for some private time, if you so desire.

Three hour dates require some kind of food, a nice snack would be just fine! Of course I want you to feed each other some little nibbles in bed during pillow talk.
Four hours and above will require that we have a meal together. That can consist of your favorite local spot, a fine dining restaurant, a food cart adventure, or maybe a charmingly moody hole in the wall. I tend to like a dive that may be suspect at first but has excellent reviews from the local food nerds. We can also stay in and roll the dice on delivery/room service options. There's a million options!

I want to bring snacks! What do you like?

Charcuterie spreads with crackers/olives/nuts/jams, sushi, cookies, cut (or uncut hehe) fruit. If we're meeting in the morning, a pastry is such a delight! I love chocolate.

I'm not big on alcohol, but if you'd like to share a drink, something bubbly is always a treat. If you're inspired for us o share a beverage, I enjoy red wine (especially pinot noir), sake, soju, plum wine, and dark sweet beers.

I will only accept sealed items. Thank you for understanding.

Do you have reviews that I can read?

You can write a tactful review if you are a TNA member.
Otherwise, please keep our activities private by keeping them stored in your memory and not on a demeaning, explicit review website or message board. Being discreet goes both ways.

If you had a great time and want the world to know, I welcome letters of positive recounting (without any of the particulars described).. and may consider creating a space on this website to feature them! Write me, lover.

I want you to wear something specific. Will you do that for me?

I tend do a pretty good job dressing myself, but I understand everyone had their own fantasies and kinks they're out here trying to fulfill.

You're also more than welcome to purchase an outfit for me to wear for you. Bring it with you or leave the ordering to me. Just make sure it's my size! I expect all garments to be new with tag, and shoes new in the box. Any clothes or items you bring for me to wear are considered gifts!

I prefer leather, pvc, sheer see-though items, micro mini stripper dance wear, body suit stockings, bodycon dresses, and fishnet. Some of the cheap stuff is just as sexy as the high ticket items!